The past week has been a week of “goodbyes.” Saturday was “the big day.” The last Sabbath at Seomyeon SDA, I was asked to give the children’s time story. They heard about David and Goliath, with the emphasis on Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things in Him who strengthens me. ” Rushing to Deokcheon by subway and taxi, I emceed the finale end-of-the-year Kindergarten presentation, followed by the end-of-the-school-year dinner with coworkers. Next to my house to scrub the garlic breath out of my mouth, then back in transit about 40 mins. to Yeonsan-dong, where a friend and I had a night out on the town. WOWZA! These days I’m learning more about Korea’s underground culture. Since Koreans are experts at saving face and masking not-so-pretty, not-so-normal, not-so-accepted, ta-bu ways…it is just recently I began to find out about the whole sub-culture. The fact it exist definitely gives (more) culture shock. Moving along…Sunday had ‘the last supper’ with a family I’ve became close to.
42 weeks later, the time has come to say goodbye. Goodbye Kookje Academy (KJC); Goodbye free school lunches; Goodbye cozy apartment; Goodbye quiet, nice apartment-complex cleaner; Goodbye sweet, humble KJC cleaner; Goodbye Hwamyeong-dong; Goodbye Seomyeon SDA church family; Goodybe to 40min. Subway rides on line 2; Goodbye to Sundays at Lotte Department Store and Chun family time; Goodbye to the forced daily runs to avoid arriving late to work ^^; Goodbye Newton Love (see week 39 for Newton Dedication); Goodbye Kindergartners, Goodbye to the Elementary students I’ve taught for many months; Goodybe to enforcing the rules Phys. Ed style; Goodbye to student’s tattle-telling, “Teacher! ‘x’ spoke korean! hahaha ‘x: 10 push ups!”; Goodbye Juan-jong-nim and the slim-line spa each night after work (BTW I did loose a few pounds during the 3 months there); Goodbye to the 8 and 10 flights of stairs taken daily to reach my apartment and work, respectively; Goodbye to the sweet ladies at the sweet shop (no pun intended); even a Goodbye to backstabbers who complained to my boss instead of speaking to me directly; Goodbye to the past 10 months of crazy changes and workplace drama; Goodbye spa girls (went 44 times. came out to $3.40/treatment. not bad, not bad^^); Goodbye late nights of surfing the net or doing anything BUT sleep (next job STARTS at 7am–I may die in the next two months. If so, you’ll know why…this cat aint no mornin’ girl); Goodbye chingus…..goodbye, goodbye, goodbye. The good thing is since I’ll still be in the country, I can avoid the ‘goodbye’ most times and instead use the “see you next time” phrase. Much more pleasant. Still, my eyes have glossed over a few times as soon as the people who I’ve made connections with and I lighten up the grip on the big, bear hug and turn away. I usually turn–or run–away before they see tears fall.
Let me be the first to tell you, however, that this isn’t the end. The Ktown Saga continues! The S. Korean visa doesn’t expire until April 30th 2009. I signed up for a year and one trait I am proud of is being faithful and loyal, ie. I keep my word to the best of my ability. Next week will be the surprise of WHERE in the country I will be (as it is, I’m not even fully sure where I will be next week!)